Every girl in Ode to Joy has some similarities with you, but there are still lots of differences among you.
The dots will somehow connect in your future.
You can argue with your like-minded friends instead of haggling over with the fools.
Learn to be a lady like Andy, being mild in nature, although she has a tough appearance. And learn to choose a man who really takes good care of you.
Learn the skills of chasing a girl, don't be shy. And try to stimulate the girl's sympathy by being cute and poor.
Of course, the key for Bao Yifan to chase Andy is not pestering, the key is if you care about her genuinely.
Marry a guy who knows how to change from being strong to tender.
When a man told you something like:" I love you very much, but we can't be a couple." , he has announced that he doesn't love you at all.
A lot of difficulties show up during Fan Shengmei's life, and she encounters the most among those five girls. She is always burdended with a family-- parents decide not only their kids' starting line,but also their horrizon.
Andy says that she would spend 2 hours studying everyday no matter how busy she is.
The gap among women doesn't only lie in these 2 hours, but thousands or even ten thousands of accumulated 2 hours.
The key point for Bao Yifan to win his gal's love is that he could make her happy.
The greastest success for a man is to make the woman he loves delightful.
Being femal, Andy is too mighty. Strong people are usually easy to feel lonely, because the more independent a person is, the hader for him to open up, however, the more he wants to bring himself to open up.
A girl like Qiu Yingying who has low EQ, being negtive, ignorant, noisy and so on should work more and talk less.
Even the rich second generation ,Qu Xiaoxiao is struggling, so what makes you lazy?
Ying Qin's attitude toward virgin reflects the idea of most men.
The affection between Qu Xiaoxiao and Dr. Zhao showed us that if you love him or her, just go for his or her love!
The advantages of Qu Xiaoxiao are figuring out clearly, being open-minded, never caring about people she dislikes but those she likes.
Guanguan's mom always says:" What I've done is good for you, so you have to listen to me."
It shows that parents sometimes never know what their kids are thinking about, and they only get stuck in their own thought.
The innocent Guan Juer is kind without principles or bottom lines.
There are a lot of people with kindness, however, not those with principles.
The relationship beween a man and a woman, either he or she is strong.
Every time when Bao Yifan and Andy appear togrther in public, he would tell others what his identity is.
He would introduce himself as Andy's boyfriend
and introduce Andy as his girlfriend.
If you really love her, just tell it to the whole world.
Qu Xiaoxiao's parents have been married over 20 years, but her grandmom still doesn't recognize her mom and her as family members. Bao Yifan chased Andy, but the first thing came to his parents was that Andy aimed at their fortune.
Wealthy people may not be happy, and the second-rich generation may not be lucky. And the conflicts of interest in rich and powerful families are much more complex than I thought.
Born in different families and belong to different social classes lead to different cognitive levels of those five girls.
Life is not easy and we will all come to the same end.
The world is like a huge clip doll machine, and I stand outside the glass, only hoping to get you.
Being in love is not the longer the better.
It's like a piece of tissue, which will be split up if you tear it. Even though several years of your affection sounds invincible.
You may not want a friend like Qu Xiaoxiao in real life.
Her original family has given her the sense of superiority since she was born. But the most of us are ordinary people. It's not necessary to make a friend if we are in different social classes.
As friends, we respect their values and remind them when we run into different ideas without stepping in. Of couse, we must offer help when they are in trouble. And that's all because they are already adults.
Beibg real decent will tire yourself the most, however, prudery will tire people around you the most.
Those five girls of the 22nd floor proved that there isn't an easy way for a woman to struggle.