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《欢乐颂》教给我们的30件小事

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Every girl in Ode to Joy has some similarities with you, but there are still lots of differences among you.

《欢乐颂》的每个姑娘都像你，但每个姑娘却又都不是你。

02

The dots will somehow connect in your future.

人生处处有伏笔。

03

You can argue with your like-minded friends instead of haggling over with the fools.

常与同好争天下，不与傻瓜共短长。

04

Learn to be a lady like Andy, being mild in nature,  although she has a tough appearance. And learn to choose a man who really takes good care of you.

学着做安迪这样的女人，虽然看似冰冷，却是内心柔软，并且懂得选择一个真正为自己好的人。

05

Learn the skills of chasing a girl, don't be shy. And try to stimulate the girl's sympathy by being cute and poor.

跟小包总学学，追女生必须脸皮厚，他乡遇故知，卖萌卖惨求蹭住。

06

Of course, the key for Bao Yifan to chase Andy is not pestering, the key is if you care about her genuinely.

当然，小包总追安迪不只靠死缠，用心才是关键。

07

Marry a guy who knows how to change from being strong to tender.

要嫁就嫁给，懂得如何让“总攻”变成“绕指柔”的那个人。

08

When a man told you something like:" I love you very much, but we can't be a couple." , he has announced that he doesn't love you at all.

当一个男人能说出“我很爱你，但我们不能在一起”这样的话，就已经泄露了他心底的想法：他根本不爱你。

09

A lot of difficulties show up during Fan Shengmei's life, and she encounters the most among those five girls. She is always burdended with a family-- parents decide not only their kids' starting line,but also their horrizon.

樊胜美的发展道路艰难而苦涩，是五美中生活的最难的一个，她身上永远要背负着一个家庭的重担——父母不仅是孩子的起跑线，还是孩子的天花板。

10

Andy says that she would spend 2 hours studying everyday no matter how busy she is.

安迪说：不管多忙，她每天都要抽出两个小时来学习。

The gap among women doesn't only lie in these 2 hours, but thousands or even ten thousands of accumulated 2 hours.

女人和女人之间的差距，并不是每天这短短的两个小时，而是日积月累下的两千个小时乃至两万个小时。

11

The key point for Bao Yifan to win his gal's love is that he could make her happy.

小包总最能俘获人心的关键点在于：他能够让喜欢的人开心。

The greastest success for a man is to make the woman he loves delightful.

让一个喜欢的女人开心快乐是一个男人最大的成功和本事。

12

Being femal, Andy is too mighty.  Strong people are usually easy to feel lonely, because the more independent a person is, the hader for him to open up, however, the more he wants to bring himself to open up.

作为一个女人，安迪太强大了，强大的人往往容易孤独。越是靠自己的人，就越难敞开心扉，也越想敞开心扉。

13

A girl like Qiu Yingying who has low EQ,  being negtive, ignorant, noisy and so on should work more and talk less.

浑身负能量、不懂分寸、聒噪……像邱莹莹这样情商是短板的女生，还是少说多做比较好。

14

Even the rich second generation ,Qu Xiaoxiao is struggling,  so what makes you lazy?

富二代曲筱绡都在奋斗，你凭什么在偷懒？

15

Ying Qin's attitude toward virgin reflects the idea of most men.

应勤对于处女的态度，反映了大部分男人的想法。

16

The affection between Qu Xiaoxiao and Dr. Zhao showed us that if you love him or her, just go for his or her love!

曲妖精和赵唐僧之间的感情，告诉我们：喜欢你就上啊！

17

The advantages of  Qu Xiaoxiao are figuring out clearly,  being open-minded, never caring about people she dislikes but those she likes.

曲筱绡这个人秒就妙在，想的明白，活得通透，对不喜欢的人绝不虚情假意，对喜欢的人，会示以真心。

18

Guanguan's mom always says:" What I've done is good for you, so you have to listen to me."

关关的妈妈总爱说：“我是为你好，所以你得听我的。”

It shows that parents sometimes never know what their kids are thinking about, and they only get stuck in their own thought.

充分印证了：这个世界上有一种冷，叫做你妈觉得你冷；这个世界上也有一种好，叫做“为你好”。

19

The innocent Guan Juer is kind without principles or bottom lines.

傻白甜的关雎尔，她的心地善良往往是无原则无底线的。

There are a lot of people with kindness, however, not those with principles.

这世上从不缺善良，缺的是原则。

20

The relationship beween a man and a woman, either he or she is strong.

男女关系，不是东风压倒西风，就是西风压倒东风。

21

Every time when Bao Yifan and Andy appear togrther in public, he would tell others what his identity is.

每一次小包总和安迪出现在大众面前时，他都要主动的表明自己的“身份”。

He would introduce himself as Andy's boyfriend 

他跟人介绍自己说：我是安迪的男朋友。

and introduce Andy as his girlfriend.

他跟人介绍安迪说：安迪是我的女朋友。

If you really love her, just tell it to the whole world.

爱一个人，就是要让全世界知道。

22

Qu Xiaoxiao's parents have been married over 20 years, but her grandmom still doesn't recognize her mom and her as family members.  Bao Yifan chased Andy, but the first thing came to his parents was that Andy aimed at their fortune.

曲筱绡父母结婚二十几年，曲妈妈至今进不了曲家的家门；包奕凡追求安迪，他的父母首先想到的是安迪看上了他们家的钱财…

Wealthy people may not be happy, and the second-rich generation may not be lucky. And the conflicts of interest in rich and powerful families are much more complex than I thought.

有钱未必是幸福，身为富二代未必就是幸运。豪门的利益之争永远比我们想象的复杂。

23

Born in different families and belong to different social classes lead to different cognitive levels of those five girls.

不同的家庭出身，不同的社会阶层，会导致五美不同的认知层次。

24

Life is not easy and we will all come to the same end.

人生就是艰难，怎么活都一样。

25

The world is like a huge clip doll machine, and I stand outside the glass, only hoping to get you.

世界就像巨大的夹娃娃机，我隔着玻璃，只想得到你。

26

Being in love is not the longer the better.

谈恋爱就是这样不是时间越久就越好。

It's like a piece of tissue, which will be split up if you tear it. Even though several years of your affection sounds invincible.

听起来几年几年挺吓人的，其实就像一层脆弱的纸，一捅就破。

27

You may not want a friend like Qu Xiaoxiao in real life.

现实生活里，你未必喜欢曲筱绡这样的朋友。

Her original family has given her the sense of superiority since she was born. But the most of us are ordinary people. It's not necessary to make a friend if we are in different social classes.

毕竟原生家庭带给了她与生俱来的优越感，而我们大部分人，都不过是普通人罢了，圈子不同，不必相融。

28

As friends, we respect their values and remind them when we run into different ideas without stepping in. Of couse, we must offer help when they are in trouble. And that's all because they are already adults.

两个成年人，我们作为朋友，尊重他们的价值观，遇到不同意见，我们提醒，但不插手，但我们必然在他们困难的时候提供适当援助。只能如此。

29

Beibg real decent will tire yourself the most, however, prudery will tire people around you the most.

做人真正经呢，自己最累。做人假正经呢，身边人最累。

30

Those five girls of the 22nd floor proved that there isn't an easy way for a woman to struggle.

22楼的五个姑娘告诉我们：女人的路，哪一条都不好走 

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